Tag: leadership

  • What I Learned About Vitamin D and Cholesterol That Blew My Mind

    What I Learned About Vitamin D and Cholesterol That Blew My Mind

    “Your vitamin D is extremely low,” Dr. K said, peering at my bloodwork. “I recommend a high-dose prescription. It’s taken once a week.”

    He paused before continuing, “Another thing that really concerns me is your cholesterol level. It looks hereditary, but I’d still recommend considering a statin—a cholesterol-lowering drug.”

    I sat there taking it all in… and then a memory surfaced.

    “I remember reading something about a relationship between vitamin D and cholesterol,” I said. “Is that a thing?”

    Dr. K looked thoughtful. “Hmm… that’s not something I’ve come across in the literature I’ve read. I can look into it and get back to you.”

    You see, I’m not against medication. But if there’s a natural approach—like spending more time in the sun, adjusting my diet, or exercise more—I’ll explore that first.

    And I did remember seeing something about vitamin D and cholesterol being linked. Curious, I typed into Google:
    “Relationship between vitamin D and cholesterol.”

    As someone who geeks out on health and wellness, I dove in—and what I discovered blew my mind.

    🧬 Cholesterol is a Precursor to Vitamin D

    Wait… what?

    Turns out, we need cholesterol in our skin cells to make vitamin D from sunlight. Specifically, a molecule called 7-dehydrocholesterol (a form of cholesterol) converts into vitamin D3 when exposed to UVB rays.

    This blew me away:

    The chemical formula for cholesterol is C27H46O.
    The chemical formula for vitamin D3 is C27H44O.
    The only difference? Two hydrogen atoms.
    Those two hydrogen atoms are released when our skin is exposed to ultraviolet light.

    Source: Harvard Medical School

    So yes—the link is real. And closer than I ever imagined.

    🌟 Cholesterol Isn’t the Villain We’ve Been Told It Is

    Cholesterol has been demonized in our culture. We seek out “low-cholesterol” or cholesterol lowering foods. We’re taught cholesterol clogs arteries and causes heart attacks. But that’s just one piece of a larger story.

    Cholesterol plays a critical role in the body. Blood cholesterol not only helps create vitamin D, it also converts into hormones, supports brain function, helps form blood cells, and protects our nerves.

    And did you know your cholesterol level can be too low? In fact, low cholesterol is associated with mortality from stroke, heart disease, and cancer. Source: National Institute of Health

    So no—it’s not all bad. Like many things in life, it’s about balance, not elimination. 

    ☀️ Sunlight: Our Primary Source of Vitamin D

    Vitamin D is crucial for healthy bones, muscles, immunity—and may help prevent diseases like diabetes, cancer, and autoimmune disorders. Source: MDPI

    But here’s the catch:
    Diet alone usually isn’t enough to meet our vitamin D needs. The primary source? Sunlight.

    Only one specific type of ultraviolet ray—UVB—can trigger vitamin D synthesis in the body. It photolyzes 7-dehydrocholesterol in the skin, starting the transformation into usable vitamin D3.

    But here’s what blew my mind even more:
    You can be outside and still not get any UVB.

    So even if you think you’re getting sun, your body might not be making any vitamin D.

    ⚖️ Finding the Right Balance

    UVB rays are a double-edged sword. Too little exposure can lead to deficiency. Too much can increase the risk of skin cancer. Same source—radically different outcomes depending on dosage.

    How much is “just right”? That depends on your skin tone, location, and time of year. (This NIH paper helped, but I’m still digging into this.)

    Bottom line: we need moderate, intentional sun exposure to support our vitamin D levels—and, by extension, our overall health.

    📉 Could More Vitamin D Lower Cholesterol?

    I also found studies exploring whether raising vitamin D levels might help lower LDL (the so-called “bad” cholesterol). The evidence is still mixed, but some research shows a possible correlation between higher vitamin D and lower LDL levels.
    Source: Nature

    More research is needed, but it’s a promising area.

    📬 A Follow-Up from Dr. K

    Two days later, Dr. K messaged me.

    “I did some digging and found that there is a relationship between vitamin D and cholesterol production. UVB is the light that converts 7-dehydrocholestrol to Vitamin D3 in the body…”

    💡 So What?

    I feel like I just earned a mini-PhD in vitamin D and cholesterol—ha.

    But seriously, what struck me most wasn’t the science itself. It was how little I actually knew about basic processes in my own body—despite being “well-educated” by traditional standards.

    I had unknowingly formed beliefs based on headlines, ads, and half-truths. That cholesterol is all bad. That the sun rays cause skin cancer. None of it was completely true—or completely false.

    Here’s what I learned instead:

    • Cholesterol is a precursor to vitamin D
    • Their chemical formulas are nearly identical
    • Cholesterol plays essential roles in the body
    • Sunlight, not diet, is our main source of vitamin D
    • We may not be producing vitamin D even when “in the sun”
    • The answer lies in balance, not avoidance

    🔍 The Bigger Lesson

    The truth is often more nuanced than we’re led to believe.

    When it comes to our health—and our lives—we owe it to ourselves to ask better questions, challenge surface-level assumptions, and take radical responsibility for our own well-being.

    Inviting you to reflect on:
    What’s one “truth” you’ve accepted without questioning—about your health, body, or life—that might be worth a second look?

  • Speaking with Confidence: What No One Ever Told You

    Speaking with Confidence: What No One Ever Told You

    As the VP of Membership at my company’s Toastmasters club, I hold onboarding calls with prospective members to share more about the club and learn why they’re interested in joining.

    “I’m good at communicating one-on-one, but…”

    After speaking with 50+ prospective members, I started noticing a pattern—it’s what comes after the but.

    “But not in a larger forum.”

    “But I get nervous speaking up in front of an audience of 10+ people.”

    “But when I’m communicating with a VP, I fumble. I don’t make sense, and I start to ramble.”

    “But I black out when I present in front of a room full of people.”

    Our members want to communicate confidently, concisely, and impactfully—in front of anyone, in any setting. That makes sense. After all, Toastmasters is a platform designed to improve public speaking skills.

    What surprises me most, though, is who is sharing these goals. Frankly, 80% of the people who say this already seem like strong communicators—structuring their thoughts well, using minimal filler words, and delivering messages concisely.

    Is It Really About Communication Skills?

    That got me thinking: What’s the difference between communicating one-on-one versus in front of a larger audience or senior leaders? After all, the raw mechanics of communication are the same in both settings.

    And what if… it’s not communication skills our members need, but something deeper?

    I thought back to my first project review with our VP, Jeff.

    I knew my material inside and out. But when Jeff asked me a simple question, I completely blanked. My heart pounded, my breath became shallow, and everything I knew vanished.

    The nerves got me.

    Afterward, I felt terrible. I related to what Jen, a prospective member, told me who shared a similar experience:

    “My VP probably thinks I’m dumb. That I don’t know what I’m doing. They probably won’t want me in the meeting anymore.”

    I felt some of that, too.

    But here’s the truth: No one thinks that way except us.

    Most people—whether it’s your VP, CEO, or peer—want to see you succeed.

    Which makes me wonder: Is mastering public speaking less about technical skills and more about overcoming the illusions we create in our own minds?

    Which makes me wonder:

    Is mastering public speaking less about technical skills and more about overcoming the illusions we create in our own minds?

    The Real Barriers to Communicating with Confidence

    It’s not just about how we speak – it’s about what we believe.

    …the stories we tell ourselves.

    …The pressure to prove ourselves – to sound smart, to earn our seat at the table. (And on the flip side, the fear of not sounding or looking smart)

    …The doubt and judgement we place on ourselves, replaying the could haves and should haves after the fact.

    Simply put, we paralyze OURSELVES with our own fears, doubts, goals, and criticisms.

    The real key to public speaking? Mastering ourselves.

    So, what if the secret isn’t just in refining our communication skills, but in mastering ourselves–removing self-doubt, releasing unwarranted pressure, and giving ourselves grace?

    (Because again, most people want to see you succeed.)

    • To stop judging ourselves so harshly
    • To let go of the need to have all the answers
    • To believe we deserve to be in the room
    • To give ourselves permission to communicate with confidence
    • To offer ourselves grace if we stumble
    • Most of all, to trust and give ourselves permission to be our authentic selves–without fear or judgment

    What if we were to release all of our fears and replace them with love and self-acceptance?

    How would we show up?

    How would we communicate then?